Relationship intelligence People could use you...there is a threat In every relationship, there is a sense of insecurity...it has to be there...you can't do anything about it. So be alone... Is it what you recommend? No , connect with whom , those you understands you. Till some time...focus on studies..not into venture mode of finding your partner...it's not the time ... because the stakes are so high ...you could lose everything right now..as your studies, your capital. Better to do it after job, you have power then. You have risk taking capability then After that...try to find someone, ask people out , take risk, and leave them if you don't align with them. That's how you build a just heart. Have resilience to be vulnerable again to someone. Have courage to risk your feelings to someone.