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OVERTHINKING AND CSE

i generally overthinks and so as date approaches or better to say as exam approaches , the overthinking boosts and thats where i failed...so here comes 2 division process the first one reharding general overthinking ... you have to accept it and sometimes you need not to write everything in your head...leave things imperfect..leave things incomplete...never fully try to perfect your life. understand the root cause behind it...for me it is cse..as a way to perfectly score...so to say my root cause is perfection in cse  ...naresh saxena perfectly wrote this  पुल पार करने से पुल पार होता है नदी पार नहीं होती नदी पार नहीं होती नदी में धँसे बिना नदी में धँसे बिना पुल का अर्थ भी समझ में नहीं आता नदी में धँसे बिना पुल पार करने से पुल पार नहीं होता सिर्फ़ लोहा-लंगड़ पार होता है कुछ भी नहीं होता पार नदी में धँसे बिना न पुल पार होता है न नदी पार होती है। ... here the pull is thoughts...and the river is cse ...thought paar karne se cse paar nhi hota ...uske liye cse main utarna padta hai...
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every thought is not worthy to be written.

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parental pressure AND CSE

due to lack of conversation, or due to lack of understanding , or due to many things...there is a social  pressure on parents ...that their child must be successful.  how to handle that ?  1. DONT HANDLE THAT...LEAVE THAT ... YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. 2. GIVE EVERY TEST THAT YOU KNOW AND PROVE SOMETHING 3. STUDY AND MAINTAIN YOUR GOALS...BASICALLY FOCUS ON YOUR GOALS. 4. I CAN'T MAKE MY PARENTS UNDERSTAND THIS, ESPECIALLY MY MOM.....I WILL TRY TO CONVINCE THEM AT SUCH TIME. 5. GHARWALE TOH BOLTE HI REHTE HAIN...DON'T TAKE THEM TOO MUCH SERIOUS ....THAT YOU LOSE YOUR SENSE OF WORK.. 6. ITS MY DREAM , SO ITS MY FIGHT AND THATS WHY THEY DON'T BOTHER ME SO MUCH. 7. ONCE YOU GET FINANCIAL FREEDOM, THE PRESSURE IS GONE. मा बाप आपके सपनों के खिलाफ़ नहीं हैं  वो बस्स आपको गरीब नहीं देखना चाहते ।  8. THERE IS NO FINANCIAL PRSSURE TO EARN, EVERYBODY WHO IS PRESSURISZING YOU FINANCIALLY, ASK THEM ONE QUESTION.... WHY I NEED TO EARN RAPIDLY SO MUCH..ऐसी कॉनसी मुसीबत aअ...
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let go tension

 tension aati jaati rehti hain...chill dude and do the work . kabhi kisi ko mukammal jahan nahi milta  kabhi jameen nahi milti , kabhi aasmaan nhi milta
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Sexuality of a single person

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Dead for me

मुझसे सीखो कैसे किसी को ज़िंदा मार देता हूँ, पूरा खेल जीतकर आख़िरी बाज़ी हार देता हूँ। मौत है सबसे आसान तरीका बिछड़ने का, मैं उसे ज़िंदा छोड़ खुद की जान हार देता हूँ। मैं कभी एक से दोबारा इश्क़ नहीं करता, हाँ लेकिन किसी दूसरे पर दिल हार देता हूँ। अब वो जहाँ रहे, वो जाने, हमें उससे क्या  मैं तो खुद को दुनिया पे निसार देता हूँ। मेरे टूटे दिल ने लगा दी आग तेरी यादों में अब तुझे जलाकर खुद को संवार लेता हूं। और भी दुख रहे होंगे मोहब्बत के सिवा, यही समझाकर खुद को करार देता हूँ।                                                   – शिनाख्त 
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Getting over with her sexually

This is last and the worst phase of ending a relationship... The simple thought that pops up is she is having sexual communication with someone else and here I am single with nothing, except to masturbate And that's why it hits hardest...the jealously, the shame, and what not. The answer is she has gone and that chapter ends quite some time ago. Stop checking her. Don't fight this thought and accept the coming of this thought not the thought itself. Like don't act the thought. There are many people on this planet earth having sexual communication...and they don't even bother to me. That's why she became stranger again...aur strangers kitne bhi khubsurat kyun na ho... strangers hi hote hain. Then what is pint of imagining some stranger having sexual communication... EWWW  Aur main inferior nahi hun...agar main single hun toh. It usually takes time...time is the essential element... Tujhe bhi koi aur pasand aa jayega.you will be sexually connected to someone. Till tha...
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