how "looks" work as a curse

" imagine the amount of ugliness that a person holds since the only thing he/ she has to offer is looks only "


are you physically attractive ?
 well the answer depends on people 
if majority of people say you that you are beautiful because they find you physically attractive 
and if minority of people say you that you are okay and average...
 then the answer of this question ..is you don't know...people will tell you ..

but if someone say ...it does not matter too much ...i think it is leading to you some kind of truth.

so, if someone say that 
looks matters ...yes it does ...and it does to the majority ...but majority does not mean truth . 

there is a curse of being beautiful than pros 

1. you already won the people heart with halo effect...as they have imagined you better without your actual work. but when the mismatch seen , it does not cause harm rather it cause  ore harm .

2. looks fade away...even if you maintain them...age will give you tight slap...
if you are human ... you have to bear pregnancy..or you have to bear responsibility or many things...there are more important things out there ...rather than looks .

3. if you think you are beautiful, not so average , then congratulation you have locked a new door to stupidity ...
 
you will try to maintain it ...but sadly it's not in your control
validation is more important to you rather than your own self understanding 

4. there is a chance that all your personality is depend on this beauty thing ..and all that is left id hollowness.

thats why many people who are beautiful feels more hollow than others because there is nothing that they think about to deal with other person ...and all personalit is carry by one single stick and that is beauty.

the list could go on and on ...

....
so what to do...



just consider it as a luck and nothing more than that ....a dumb luck that majority finds you beautiful...don't take it personally ...work on yourself so that you have something to offer to the people...or even something to offer to yourself.

its like you have found a shiny pebble on your way of life...people are appreciating that pebble ...you getting complemented because of that ...dont attach to that pebble...its only useful for exchanging any favours....rather collect all what you can and what you want in this way of your life... that really makes you happy.

Comments

  1. Chikuu5 January 2026 at 08:33

    i always wanted to be pretty ngl, never knew these all came with the cost of being pretty, too

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