UNDERSTANDING ''ME'' ?

 i can say that understanding someone is way more tough than any other work in this world. poets, writers, film directors and even beggars or even saints are the ones who let their inner person out to be understand, accept by the society.

people unable to understand my love, so i should have a sense of self respect to create some distance and here is aquote from javed akhtar 

'' jo baal aajaye sheeshe main , wo sheesha tod dete hain 

jo chod usse hum, umrabhar chod dete hain''

self respect can't be trade off with one side love .

if someone don't reciprocate my feelings, its better to leave and i mean leaving completely.

and if someone rejects you , believe me ...don't waste your life on them 

rather make your life more great in such way you start loving your victories .

i want to quote here a seedhe maut song 

''jo mili thi woh jigri thi nahi 

 jo militi khushi wo thik ti bhi nahi 

ab aisi bheed hai phaili woh kahin bhi dikhti bhi nahi ''

and the 2nd thing is that 

people won't able to understand me fully ...and i understand that why they are unable to understand me ...and thats where individualism came in picture...

as my family won't able to understand me ...and thats the signal to grow out of it make yours ...till that time do that work...be calm and understand their pov without losing yours ...they have done to me a lot of favours ...and i must reciprocate that also but that does not mean they will be able to understand me fully and its okay.

atleast i understand myself more than anyone else and i feel myself 100 percent .